We’re lucky that we inhabit bay area in which the kink community is big and active and have now devoted areas for safe play and exploration.
Our very first experience had been 2 yrs ago at a little workshop at The Citadel in which the workshop leader, a skilled Dom, supplied instruction on proper strategies to prevent damage along with which toys for people to test. We began with floggers, that I enjoyed, but I became also interested in caning, therefore we asked the workshop leader if he’d cane me personally. It hurt much more that I felt nauseated, but then the endorphins hit than I expected, so much. After four shots, I became in subspace for the time that is first and that ended up being wonderful. Floaty and mellow, I pretty much curled up close to my partner and purred for the remainder session. Ever since then, we’ve acquired a fairly significant doll chest—floggers, paddles, canes, pinwheels and pet claws, bondage cuffs and restraints, spanking gloves, clothespins—we’re exploring a d/s relationship that is full-time. Continue reading “Has my head been spinning one thousand kilometers hour and I also need certainly to let go of for a little?”