Like the majority of INFPs i understand, my relationships are derived from developing deep connections. And because deep connections make time to develop, I’ve just had a couple of severe relationships that are romantic. They most likely went on only a little longer than they need to have, but this permitted me time and energy to mirror and think (we don’t understand if I’ve ever gone one second without showing and thinking!).
Now, after 2 yrs of being solitary, we constantly waver between thoughts of “I understand precisely what makes me personally pleased in a relationship and I also will undoubtedly be patient” and “i’ll be alone forever (sigh).” Every one of my (few) buddies are married, and we usually glance at their relationships, trying to puzzle out whatever they did differently and exactly why I’m not coupled up like they truly are. Continue reading “The 5 Biggest Dating Struggles of an INFP Personality”